LILONGWE-(MaraviPost)-UTM Mulanje South legislator Patricia Kaliati has urged men to take time when choosing right lifetime partners in a bid to curb rising cases of suicide.

Speaking in Parliament on Wednesday during deliberations on social welfare matters, Kaliati observes that many suicide incidents affecting men are linked to relationship conflicts and domestic pressure.

She emphasized that men must be cautious when selecting life partners, warning against what she described as “choosing women from bars and other inappropriate places,” which she said often leads to unstable relationships and emotional distress.

Kaliati’s remarks came in response to a comment made by the Parliamentary Committee on Social Welfare, Chairperson, Savel Kafwafwa who expressed concern that increasing numbers of men are taking their own lives an indication, he said, that men also face domestic abuse and emotional suffering that often goes unreported.

Kaliati called for greater national attention to men’s mental health, stressing that men frequently struggle in silence due to cultural expectations that discourage them from discussing emotional or domestic challenges.

She also urged communities, families, and policymakers to promote healthier relationships and provide support systems for individuals in troubled marriages or partnerships.

The debate comes at a time when Malawi has recorded a disturbing rise in suicide cases, with mental health experts calling for more comprehensive interventions, including counseling services, community awareness, and stronger social protection mechanisms.

Kaliati reiterated that while women’s empowerment remains essential, the country must also ensure that men are protected, supported, and equipped to build stable families.

“We must address the factors driving men to such extreme actions,” she said. “Healthy relationships start with making the right choices.”