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Why Melissa Joan Hart Won’t Limit Herself to Christian Roles Despite Faith

Melissa Joan Hart is proud of her faith — but has good reason for not limiting herself to Christian-based films.

“When I did [the 2015 movie] God’s Not Dead 2, a lot of people asked me, ‘Are you going to only do Christian roles now?’ And I was like, ‘But what does that look like?’ Because, you know, in the story of Jesus, someone plays Judas,” Hart, 49, exclusively told Us Weekly while discussing her partnership with Ancestry.com.

“As an actor, I like to explore all the different reasons why people do things for good or for bad,” she continued, “I’ve played evil [people], I’ve played hoarders, and I just love diving into the psychology of, ‘Why would someone do that? Let me discover why, and then let me try to portray it as honestly as possible.’ And I think that goes across the board in everything.”

Hart explained that she doesn’t “necessarily look to play roles that are Christian,” and is instead interested in finding new ways to tell a “human story.” The star of legendary sitcoms like Clarissa Explains It All, Sabrina the Teenage Witch and Melissa & Joey, she has also always been drawn to comedy — and is more than willing to put herself out there in “funny” or “inappropriate” situations, pending there’s a moral baseline to go along with it.

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“As long as there’s the proper amount of punishment and goodness coming out of people, then it’s OK,” she said. “It’s OK to play certain roles, as long as there are repercussions for certain behaviors, and then there are rewards for being a good person.”

There are, however, certain parameters for her career choices when it comes to how those decisions may reflect on her family. The eldest of eight kids, Hart said she’s always prioritized making sure her siblings will feel “proud” of what she’s doing, which ensured her children would one day feel the same. (Hart and husband Mark Wilkerson share three kids: sons Mason, 19, Brady, 17, and Tucker, 12.)

“Will my siblings be proud of this? Is this something that’s gonna embarrass them? Is this something and that I knew someday would reflect on any children? If I could look at it from the perspective of my siblings who were alive, then that would translate to the children I haven’t had yet,” she said, explaining her thought process. “So that I could make sure there was nothing I was shy about.”

At the same time, Hart is aware that her kids aren’t exactly fully dialed into what their mom does for a living. “When I was writing my book [Melissa Explains It All: Tales From My Abnormally Normal Life], my husband was like, ‘You sure you want to write that down? Our kids are gonna read that someday.’ I’m like, ‘No, they’re not. My kids are never gonna read my book. OK?’ They might be like, 50 and go, ‘You know what? My mom’s gone now,I’m gonna read my mom’s book. But by then, they’ll be big enough and they can enjoy it.”

Melissa Joan Hart
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Hart added that her memoir is also “honest,” which is important too. “There’s being honest about your real experiences and your life and your mistakes, because we’ve all made them,” she said. “And as a Christian, I’m a sinner. We’re all sinners. We don’t go to church because we figured it all out. We go to church because we’re trying to figure it out. We go to church to repent and to ask for forgiveness and all the different things so and confess and all that.”

While Hart may not be limiting herself when it comes to her career, faith is still the No. 1 priority for her and her family. Earlier this year, her middle son, Brady, revealed his decision to rededicate himself to Christ with a baptism.

“He has a great youth pastor that has inspired him,” Hart told Us. “He’s got teachers at school that are constantly talking to him about faith, friends that he talks to about faith. And it started to really mean a lot to him in the last year. It started to really resonate with him.”

The Sabrina alum confessed that the day of the service, she and Wilkerson couldn’t hold back their emotions, which Brady was quick to chastise.

“People were handing us tissues! My husband and I sat in the front. We always sit in the back of the church,” she said with a laugh. “We were sitting in the front of the church, right in the aisle, and just bawling. And [Brady’s] like, ‘I looked over at you guys. You were a mess.’ Like, sorry!”

Brady’s involvement with the church is just one of the many things keeping Hart and her kids busy this holiday season, which is why she looked to Ancestry.com to her gifting needs, providing a unique present for loved ones that feels personal.

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“I feel like it’s gotten so hectic and crazy and insane — the stress, the chaos, the Instagrammable moments, of, ‘We have to have the perfect Christmas card,’ and the cookies and the baked sales and and even, like, the coat drives and all the things,” she explained. “And potlucks and parties and cocktails. It’s a lot. I was just looking to simplify the holidays. And with ancestry, it was great.”

A subscription-based online genealogy service, Ancestry.com  provides access to a vast collection of historical records, tools to build family trees and DNA testing to help users discover their family history. Hart explained that after using it on her own lineage, she realized it’s a “great gift” that can also be a “safe topic to talk about” at the dinner table.

“I just think it’s super fun. And, I mean, at the center of the holidays, should be family, and I think that that’s what Ancestry does,” she told Us. “I love that and might connect you to, like, past generations, but it’s also there for the future generations. I love adding pictures and records that I have so that someday when I’m gone, my great grandkids can see all these records from generations past. You get to pass it on.”

Why Melissa Joan Hart Won’t Limit Herself to Christian Roles Despite Faith

Melissa Joan Hart is proud of her faith — but has good reason for not limiting herself to Christian-based films.

“When I did [the 2015 movie] God’s Not Dead 2, a lot of people asked me, ‘Are you going to only do Christian roles now?’ And I was like, ‘But what does that look like?’ Because, you know, in the story of Jesus, someone plays Judas,” Hart, 49, exclusively told Us Weekly while discussing her partnership with Ancestry.com.

“As an actor, I like to explore all the different reasons why people do things for good or for bad,” she continued, “I’ve played evil [people], I’ve played hoarders, and I just love diving into the psychology of, ‘Why would someone do that? Let me discover why, and then let me try to portray it as honestly as possible.’ And I think that goes across the board in everything.”

Hart explained that she doesn’t “necessarily look to play roles that are Christian,” and is instead interested in finding new ways to tell a “human story.” The star of legendary sitcoms like Clarissa Explains It All, Sabrina the Teenage Witch and Melissa & Joey, she has also always been drawn to comedy — and is more than willing to put herself out there in “funny” or “inappropriate” situations, pending there’s a moral baseline to go along with it.

Melissa Joan Hart Jokes Her Sons Want ‘Nothing to Do’ With Her Career

“As long as there’s the proper amount of punishment and goodness coming out of people, then it’s OK,” she said. “It’s OK to play certain roles, as long as there are repercussions for certain behaviors, and then there are rewards for being a good person.”

There are, however, certain parameters for her career choices when it comes to how those decisions may reflect on her family. The eldest of eight kids, Hart said she’s always prioritized making sure her siblings will feel “proud” of what she’s doing, which ensured her children would one day feel the same. (Hart and husband Mark Wilkerson share three kids: sons Mason, 19, Brady, 17, and Tucker, 12.)

“Will my siblings be proud of this? Is this something that’s gonna embarrass them? Is this something and that I knew someday would reflect on any children? If I could look at it from the perspective of my siblings who were alive, then that would translate to the children I haven’t had yet,” she said, explaining her thought process. “So that I could make sure there was nothing I was shy about.”

At the same time, Hart is aware that her kids aren’t exactly fully dialed into what their mom does for a living. “When I was writing my book [Melissa Explains It All: Tales From My Abnormally Normal Life], my husband was like, ‘You sure you want to write that down? Our kids are gonna read that someday.’ I’m like, ‘No, they’re not. My kids are never gonna read my book. OK?’ They might be like, 50 and go, ‘You know what? My mom’s gone now,I’m gonna read my mom’s book. But by then, they’ll be big enough and they can enjoy it.”

Melissa Joan Hart
Michael Tran / AFP

Hart added that her memoir is also “honest,” which is important too. “There’s being honest about your real experiences and your life and your mistakes, because we’ve all made them,” she said. “And as a Christian, I’m a sinner. We’re all sinners. We don’t go to church because we figured it all out. We go to church because we’re trying to figure it out. We go to church to repent and to ask for forgiveness and all the different things so and confess and all that.”

While Hart may not be limiting herself when it comes to her career, faith is still the No. 1 priority for her and her family. Earlier this year, her middle son, Brady, revealed his decision to rededicate himself to Christ with a baptism.

“He has a great youth pastor that has inspired him,” Hart told Us. “He’s got teachers at school that are constantly talking to him about faith, friends that he talks to about faith. And it started to really mean a lot to him in the last year. It started to really resonate with him.”

The Sabrina alum confessed that the day of the service, she and Wilkerson couldn’t hold back their emotions, which Brady was quick to chastise.

“People were handing us tissues! My husband and I sat in the front. We always sit in the back of the church,” she said with a laugh. “We were sitting in the front of the church, right in the aisle, and just bawling. And [Brady’s] like, ‘I looked over at you guys. You were a mess.’ Like, sorry!”

Brady’s involvement with the church is just one of the many things keeping Hart and her kids busy this holiday season, which is why she looked to Ancestry.com to her gifting needs, providing a unique present for loved ones that feels personal.

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“I feel like it’s gotten so hectic and crazy and insane — the stress, the chaos, the Instagrammable moments, of, ‘We have to have the perfect Christmas card,’ and the cookies and the baked sales and and even, like, the coat drives and all the things,” she explained. “And potlucks and parties and cocktails. It’s a lot. I was just looking to simplify the holidays. And with ancestry, it was great.”

A subscription-based online genealogy service, Ancestry.com  provides access to a vast collection of historical records, tools to build family trees and DNA testing to help users discover their family history. Hart explained that after using it on her own lineage, she realized it’s a “great gift” that can also be a “safe topic to talk about” at the dinner table.

“I just think it’s super fun. And, I mean, at the center of the holidays, should be family, and I think that that’s what Ancestry does,” she told Us. “I love that and might connect you to, like, past generations, but it’s also there for the future generations. I love adding pictures and records that I have so that someday when I’m gone, my great grandkids can see all these records from generations past. You get to pass it on.”

Ryan Lochte Gets Baptized After Divorce and Rehab: ‘My Heart Is Full’

Ryan Lochte has been born again after a rocky year.

The Olympic swimmer, 41, revealed he was baptized on Sunday, November 2, following his divorce from Kayla Rae Reid and his return from a substance abuse rehab earlier this year.

“I love sharing my life with my fans/followers. In this season of growing, I have learned that the only thing that truly matters is what God thinks of me,” Lochte wrote via Instagram, sharing several videos of himself in a silver tube before being dunked under water during the religious ceremony.

Lochte told his followers, “I made the decision to rededicate my life to Jesus and today I was baptized! My heart is full of so much love and happiness and I’m just so thankful for everything God is doing and going to do in my life.”

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He concluded: “Thank you for all those who have loved and supported me throughout my life, you mean so much to me! @canvas_fl.”

In addition to sharing videos from the actual baptism, Lochte posed for photos with two of his three children, Caiden, 8, and Liv, 6, as well as his girlfriend, Molly Gillihan, and what appeared to be two of her kids.

Lochte’s eldest kids, whom he shares with estranged wife Reid, were all smiles as they attended their dad’s big moment at Canvas Church in Florida. (Lochte and Reid, 34, also share daughter Georgia, 2.)

Ryan Lochte Gets Baptized After Divorce Treatment
Courtesy of Ryan Lochte/Instagram

“Congrats!” former Bachelor Sean Lowe replied in the comments, while Lochte’s fans applauded him for being so open and honest about his faith journey.

Lochte’s baptism, which is a Christian tradition to wash away sin, comes two months after he announced he was sober following a stint in a substance abuse program.

“I wanted to share some positive updates in my life and what’s going on,” Lochte shared via Instagram on August 29. “I’m so happy right now, and the big reason is that I’m 54 days sober. Yes!”

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The retired professional swimmer explained that after being involved in a 2023 car accident he was in a “really dark place” that resulted in feelings of “depression, loneliness and [had him] feeling like [he] was giving up in life.”

Lochte noted that following the crash, his mental state led him “down a road of substance abuse.” Once he realized he “needed to make a change,” the athlete checked into a Florida recovery center.

“I’m motivated and I’m moving forward,” he explained. “I wanted to share this with you guys, especially my fans, because you guys are so important to me. In life, you’re going to get knocked down or hit a roadblock. … It’s not how you get knocked out. It’s how you get back up.”

Ryan Lochte Gets Baptized After Divorce, Substance Abuse Treatment
Courtesy of Ryan Lochte/Instagram

Lochte’s recovery journey also came amid his and Reid’s ongoing divorce. After seven years of marriage, Reid filed for divorce from Lochte in June.

“Earlier this year, I made the hard decision to end my marriage after deep prayer and reflection,” Reid wrote via Instagram at the time. “I hold marriage in the highest regard, so this has been one of the most painful, revealing and challenging seasons of my life. I’ve been hesitant to share until I could do so from a place of healing — not from fresh, open wounds.”

Lochte released his own statement in June, writing via social media, “Although this decision hasn’t been easy, I believe it’s the right step toward peace and well-being for us both. I remain committed to healing, growth and coparenting with care and respect as we move forward separately. Thank you to our family and friends for your continued support. It truly means a lot as we begin this new chapter.”

Lochte and Reid’s divorce has since gotten messy, with Reid claiming in an August court filing that she found empty baggies of cocaine in their home allegedly left by Lochte. Reid also alleged that she found Lochte inhaling nitrous oxide in front of one of their kids. As a result of the allegations, Reid asked the court to award her sole physical custody of their children.

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Lochte denied the accusations in a statement to Us, noting that while he did succumb to substance abuse after his 2023 car accident, he never got high with his kids in the room.

“I am not denying that I used drugs in my home, but I adamantly deny ever using drugs in front of or around my children, and I have never driven them while intoxicated,” he said in August.

Lochte added, “We all make mistakes in life. We are not defined by those mistakes, but by how we learn from them and the work we put in to overcome them. I am extremely sorry for hurting or disappointing anyone along the way. My focus now is on my recovery, on being the best father I can be, and on moving forward in a way that keeps my kids safe, supported, and loved.”

If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, contact the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).

Baptism, Exorcism, and Religious Abuse of Children in Africa

By Leo Igwe

Religious rituals are not often what they are believed to be. So, African governments must be vigilant and take measures to combat religious abuse of children on the continent. Violations during religious ceremonies are rampant, and they negatively impact the lives of children and the future and development of society. In past years, some cases have been reported of children drowning and dying during baptism, or exorcism. For instance, in 2016, there was a case of six children who died in the course of a baptism ceremony in Ivory Coast. According to the report, at about 5 am on Monday, two self-acclaimed prophetesses, Maud Dzvuke, and Jane Ruvinga took 9 children to a stream for this ceremony in Muriwo village. 

The weather was freezing. One of the children sensed danger and escaped from the scene. He went and informed the elders of the community. But others, Blessed Muvadi, 1, Emmanuel Dzvuke, 7, Tafadzwa Dzvuke, 5, Tinotenda Dzvuke, 3, Patience Pfumbidza, 9, and Shamiso Pfumbidza, 4., were not lucky. They could not flee. Six of them died after undergoing a baptism under the cold weather. Two others, in critical condition, were taken to a hospital for treatment. There has not been any report of whether they survived or not.

Interestingly, when someone from the community arrived at the scene and saw the children frothing from the mouth, the prophetesses asked him to take the children to their shrine for prayers. The children were taken to the shrine, and there they passed away. If they had rushed them to a hospital, not a shrine shrine, at least some would have survived. The prophetesses fled the scene, but the police later arrested them. They charged Dzvuke and Ruvinga for culpable homicide. The police in Ivory Coast must be commended for intervening in this case. Hopefully, the police prosecuted the prophetesses and punished them for their crimes. The government needs to restrain other so-called men and women of god from indulging in reckless and irresponsible religious practices. 

But this was not an isolated incident or a practice peculiar to Ivory Coast. In 2022, a three-month-old baby was among 15 people who drowned during a baptism ceremony in Johannesburg, South Africa. In Nigeria, Ghana, Togo, Benin, Liberia, etc harmful religious practices are widespread, and children are often targets and victims.  Many religious actors, including priests and priestesses, prophets and prophetesses, pastors, imams, marabouts, sheikhs, diviners, and traditional healers abuse children in the name of baptism, exorcism, or healing. They use cold and freezing water to baptize them. These religious actors dip children in cold streams, rivers, or oceans. God men and women beat and flog children with sticks and brooms in the course of deliverance or exorcism. They torture kids, deny them food and sleep in the name of expelling demons. Many faith and traditional healers administer poisonous concoctions and substances to children in the names of healing. These abuses result in childhood trauma, health damage, and, as in this case, death. Unfortunately, these charlatans largely get away with their crimes. No one brings them to book, or holds them accountable or responsible for these infractions. Religious violation or murder of children, as in this case, is perpetrated with impunity. 

Africans must wake up from their religious slumber and protect their children. Children in Africa deserve better. Many children in Africa find themselves in situations where they lack basic amenities and protections. They should not be subjected to horrific abuses in the name of religion or faith of their parents and guardians. Baptism and exorcism are matters of faith and add no value to child growth and development. They are of no existential consequence to children. In cases where the children do not die as a result of these ritual practices, they grow up psychologically scarred. These harmful religious practices end up inflicting some trauma, which children deal with for the rest of their lives. 

State authorities must fulfill their duties and responsibilities to children. They should take necessary measures to protect them from these ignorant and mischievous prophets and prophetesses. Governments should strive to end abuses linked to exorcism, baptism of children, and other forms of religious abuse in the region.

Leo Igwe is a humanist and sent this piece from Ibadan, Oyo state.