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Health Relationships: Ladies listen, “Men marry for stability not SEX or LOVE”

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By Klaus Kasenge

Men attend to Women for two reasons, SEX, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for Sex or Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain:
A man can Love you and not Marry you.
A man can have s£x with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability to his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is “Peace of Mind”;
I have seen some guys who made this statement “I love this lady but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.” Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, or anything that most Ladies think is fanciful.

They wondered whether this woman could build me a home, take care of my kids and me, can give me PEACE of mind.

Men don’t like Ladies who give them discomfort, this is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her.

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