Health relationship is vital for family, community, and country’s socioeconomic growth as happy individuals participate fully in any meaningful development.
In this HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP daily column, will be highlighting key issues to help our readers make informed decisions while staying in any relationship; cohabitating, marriage, dating, and others.
Today, we are starting with SEX which some consider as an integral part of the relationship between man and woman.
You can have sex and not be in love. A man may hate you and still have sex with you. Be wise. Using sex to manipulate a man will eventually fail. It is self-deception to think that giving him sex will make him love you.
True Love will never force you to engage in sex. A man who doesn’t love you will not change his mind because of sex. If he tells you to ‘PROVE YOUR LOVE’ by having sex with him, He is only using you. If he is in it for the sex, “BETTER SEX” will take him away from you.
Making yourself his “SEX SLAVE” is foolish. TRUE LOVE will never shame or degrade you.
If you have made the mistake of trying to use SEX to get a man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right foundation. If he gets married to you because of ‘the sex is good’, it will be fatal to your marriage.
Let him get married to you because he LOVES you, HONORS you, FEELS a strong EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, and SPIRITUAL connection with you, and wants to spend the REST OF HIS LIFE
Source: Sire Apm Lukwesa
