By Donata Mpochela
LILONGWE-(MaraviPost)-As the tale of lack of commitment rages on, it is manifest that all corners of life have been negatively affected.
In most cases, when a couple is emotionally attuned to each other, they experience emotional connection and emotional intimacy and this is why most relationships neglect to their partners consistently failing to notice one another’s emotions, hence grounding abuse.
Despite being at standstill, women are abused by their spouses forgetting their other possible suitors.
This is the message at heart of a debut video and audio song ‘Amuna ndife’ to be released on Friday, May 22.
Ril B starts the first verse by taking the listeners to a low sorrowfulness mood and paints the desolate picture of love and negligence which will be brought to corners of lessons on bad conducts women face in a relation.
Ril B real name Blessings Bwanali says ‘Amuna Ndife’ carries an encouraging message to a woman who is married or in a relationship but is always abused.
“So as a man I have been watching such bad acts from a distance and this is why Zika B and I want paint a positive picture telling the woman to understand the best treatment in a relationship.
“That’s why the concept says ‘Amuna Ndife’ (we are real men who doesn’t beat or cheat on their wives or girlfriends). So the song itself tells the woman to come to us and experience real love,” Ril B said.
He said: “As a preamble, as I start the first verse, it’s beginning with a bit of sorrow because all I want is for women getting the message has to understand that this person is really feeling bad about whatever treatment faced.
However, as the song approaches, Zika B real name Stanley Zikabuma reveals the evils of violence in relation most people face and don’t realize the value of their partners.
He sings: “Daily umabwera ndinkhani// Kundimasukila ngati mzako weniweni//ndimakuthandiza nzeru osati mwamakani// Tuluka mu iguputo bwela ulowe kenani//
“I decided to come up with the concept of in the second verse because I want to raise awareness of what a good friend does. I am a good friend to the wife who is being abused by her husband all am trying is to communicate with her she should come to me and run away from all the problems that she is facing.
“In fact, real men don’t beat their wives or cheat, they focus on making money to feed their wives,” Zika B revealed.
Currently, Ril B and Zika are working on a mixtape which will be released later this year; however, the two came into the public eye as Ril B came with Mwini Zinthu featuring Blaze and Zika B with a song ‘Ndikunyamule’ (Paiwe Ndathela featuring Saint.
