By Rfred Manjawira
You give him sex to show him that you love him but when he give you sex to show that he loves you, he must pay or spoil you. You even demean him among friends ati ”amakonda sex ” as if that is an absolute outlier in a relationship .
Sex must be repaid with sex and money must be repaid with money . The same with gifts : you give him sex he give you sex , he give you money you give him money , he buy you gifts you buy him gifts in return . Remember you also benefit from sexual satisfaction just like him , so why must he pay?
Giving is a mutual principle in relationship but the problem arises when you start selling sex in relationship , the nonsense begins when you feel that you are doing your man a favor by giving him sex , thinking like it’s the utmost grace or some sort of charity .
Sex is responsive and a mutual act , both of you are responsible for this act ; you both meet loaded with libido and no one owes the other a compensation or payment unless you are for the streets .
Stop saying that he likes sex or date your brother , stop selling sex in a relationship . Stop tagging money to sex in a relationship .
If you want to sell sex then go retail and join the streets like others . Enough of ”I like him but he doesn’t have money ” we want girls with money too , we want valuable girls whom we can share a responsibility with.
One more thing ; a man will respect you not because of how you sway in bed , a man will respect you because of how you add value in his life, like the reason of being two must be significant enough to surpass the mere opening and closing of legs.
Disclaimer: The views expressed in the article are those of the author not necessarily of The Maravi Post or Editor
