I was told that psychologically, the brain has sectors or sections as you may call it. I have never read or studied psychology but since we all have brains to think and reason, I have my own psychology to go by. “Women have a larger shopping center than Men.” Said my counselor it’s the reason why when you take your wife, girlfriend or sugar mammie perhaps your madamme as some of you prefer to call them, for a walk and you pass by the market place, you usually take more than an hour walking around and buying nothing. I was told, when such a thing happens, I shouldn’t get bored, but learn to accept it because it’s part of the BEAs.
Actually, Men are not on the loose. They have their part too. A very wide and huge appreciation center. As much I know that ladies do appreciate too, but you ladies, this is Men’s game. It’s the reason why most road accidents that happen during broad day light will have a woman attached to the scene. To be precise, Men are unbeatable in appreciating the looks of a woman. They don’t actually pay attention to the colors of a dress or flowers, but theirs are looks and looks alone. Talk of the complexion, the heaps, the smile and hey, don’t mention that other one. And this therefore should serve as a warning to all women who are wives; Be attractive. Be the woman a man should appreciate, and your man for this matter. But as you do so, be the woman you would like your son to marry.
You know what? Being a man has helped me understand that letting a cute girl pass by without giving her three eyes, means something is wrong with you as a man. I mean, men can’t just help it, they just have to do it. But the funniest thing is this, listen carefully…
“Ladies are flowers. Easily spotted by insects (maybe a bee can do better), but as nature rules it, bees like fresh flowers only” I think you ladies have to strive to keep yourselves fresh. Sorry to say.
“Men are gardeners. Even though they do not like the same type of flowers they have no choice but to keep and nurture the ones in their garden” This is tricky ladies, so wise up.
Most ladies, in response to what they call fashion and fame, have gone breasts and thighs exposed in the name of looking sexy. Well, I shouldn’t hide it here, Men enjoy that for pleasure. And I repeat for PLEASURE. Of course I give you the freedom to define pleasure in this context the way you can and if anyone judges your reasoning as wrong, let me know.
We know that everything precious that God created is hidden. Talk of Gold, Pearls, Diamond and what have you. You may wish to include Coal as well. And it takes real men to access it. Not just real but precious determined men of purpose and vision. All these men want is something precious. And I am one of them. Maybe your boyfriend or husband might be one too. Don’t you think your body is precious and far much precious that Gold and Diamond?
Unless you tell me that you are as cheap as charcoal that even a beggar can access the view and shapes of your breasts, curves and of course the shape of that part you hide in your pants. You define that as freedom of dress? I beg to differ here. I think is freedom of undressing, and much as men are concerned, they NEVER CAN MARRY nor OPT TO MARRY such kind of a woman. We need someone who knows how wealthy she is so that in turn we may be counted wealth. Be the woman you would like your son marry.